Is SEX really better if you're INLOVE?

                  

I've heard this a gab-billion times before, that "sex is so much better when you're in love". Well, I can't say that I have been in love, but I've had my share of great sex. I know the answer to this question varies, depending on who you ask, but I also know that you don't have to be married or in a relationship to want sex.

I've always wondered about those people who says "Sex is not important",  "It's not everything in a relationship",  I've even heard,  "I don't like doing it". Now we all know that it's not everything, but to say that, it's not important and that you don't like doing it, is really questionable to me. It could be that, you went through something in your life that made you not want to do it, or you don't like your partner, or maybe you are just a plain hypocrite!

Like I said, I have never been in love so my answer to this question is very one sided. But hasn't any of you had a day where you just wanna knock boots with someone? You make eye contact, you are both attracted to each other and you just want to get it on. I don't see anything wrong with that. Sex is a wonderful thing, and we shouldn't be ashamed for wanting to have it. I don't think I have to be in love to appreciate great skin, beautiful body, and just someone who's a good lay! Now I'm not knocking love with sex, that's why I raised this question. What's are your thoughts on this?

Comments

[Alissa]

hi ben .. interesting topic .. i think its yes and not necessarily yes ..

yes it would feel good with someone that ur in love with .. for some people ..

then it could be .. not necessarily yes because it could feel good with someone that ur not in love with ..

u just answered ur own question!

;p

[Charles]

Heyy Ben,
interesting topic. Well in my opinion Sex is better if your in love. To me it shows the affection, physical and emotional attraction towards one another. Well for me its better for if your in love, cuz your showing affection towards ur partner... Well its also true for the comment above/under mine as well..

[Myra]

it really depends on what you're looking for ...

are we talking about just meeting the "physical" aspect of sex? i think sex is all physical ... and i think you dont need to be inlove to meet your physical desires.

however, some people confuse sex with "making love" ... for those type of people, i think they need to be in love in order for sex to be satisfying ... there's an emotional attachment to the partner before, during and after the act ... and i think sex becomes more sensual.